Sam your love for your little girl comes through so loud and clear.
Ten or twelve years ago, I came out of Fundamentalist Christianity. Their teaching emphasized the importance of a traditional family. They believe a patriarchal structure with a father and mother is the basis for a stable home environment and the building block for society.
God forbid that a child end up in gay home.
Since leaving, I have rethought what was preached and taught by those churches.
I think it is far more important that children are reared in a loving, stable environment. Regardless of whether they have two mommies, two daddies, or a mommy and daddy raising them, children thrive in a safe caring environment.
You are doing well. The most important thing is to love her to where your daughter never doubts your love.