Ms. Agnes, you are full of surprises. You are a peaceful warrior filled with insight and wisdom. I always admired the Eastern philosophy of Asian martial arts. You learn to fight so that you don’t have to. If properly learned the rigorous discipline, tempers reactive passion, and anger. I realize many who learn fighting techniques, approach it from an ego-driven mindset and become a better equipped bully. But, not you. In your writing, I see a gentle, compassionate soul. I hope all is well with you.