Girish, there are a world full of people who are in the same predicament. I have come to believe that until a person develops a healthy love for oneself. They will struggle with love and relationships with others. The Ego, our inner critic, is our worse enemy when it comes to loving self and others. Meditation and self-reflection is a wonderful path for self- discovery, healing, and learning to a self-respect and healthy self-love. From there, we begin to see, connect, and love the world and those around us.